HOW TO PREPARE FOR YOUR UPCOMING SESSION // Engagement
Congrats, you’re engaged! One question I always get from clients when booking their shoot is “what do we wear?!” Do you go with something more formal or casual? Maybe something with drama? What about hair and makeup? And how is he supposed to dress? I’ve come up with a few quick hitting tips to put your mind at ease.
Engagement photos (typically) only happen once so use this as an excuse to go shopping. Photo sessions are an heirloom investment, something that will live on throughout time, and part of the experience should be the build up, excitement and preparation. The likelihood of you pulling something out of the back of your closet a night or two before your shoot probably isn’t going to give you that same fiery feeling of confidence and excitement that a new outfit would.
My next suggestion, variety. I always suggest a full outfit change for my girls and at least a shirt change for our guys. Google will tell you “one casual outfit and one dressy outfit,” but I’m more on the side of wearing what feels authentic to your style and wearing what you feel good in. When outfit planning, don’t forget to plan your undergarments appropriately– If a bra fits you funny or your dress is kind of see-through, the camera will expose all secrets 🙈
In terms of patterns, I personally have “a one pattern rule” which says that there should only be one pattern for every three people in a group. So if your fiancé goes with a patterned shirt, pick a solid color found in that pattern and rock it. Winter accessories (hats, scarves) are the exception to that rule 😉
In terms of colors, I personally don’t have a favorite. I’d suggest wearing what you look/feel best in and also take your setting into consideration. ie- If we’re shooting in a green field, don’t wear a green dress. If we’re shooting on the beach, don’t wear a tan dress.
Next up, be true to your style. If you’re not wearing something that you’re comfortable in, the camera will only magnify that. You’ll want to pick something that compliments your figure. (–> One thing that doesn’t shoot great across the board– tops with puffy/very padded shoulders 🙁 Unfortunately, it boxes girls out and makes them appear wider than they really are.) If you’re doing an open air shoot (on a beach, in a field, etc.) I love the idea of picking a dress (or skirt) that’s fitted on top with some flowiness on the bottom; this will allow for movement, playfulness and will help keep your hands busy. As for shoes? Barefoot on the beach, heals or wedges in the city and whatever your heart desires for green space. If you hate your legs, don’t wear a short dress and if you hate your arms, wear something with a sleeve. You’re in control here! So play to your strengths while drawing attention away from those “trouble” spots you might be a little self-conscious of. We’re human, we all have them.
What about hair and makeup? I would say about a quarter of my clients get their hair and makeup done for their engagement shoot. Some use it as a trial/test run for their big day while others just want to soak up the whole experience. For me personally? I just know I feel my best when I’m tan. If you’re feeling a little ghostly pre-shoot, consider getting a spray tan two days prior or invest in some self tanning drops (a link to my favorite can be found here). Don’t forget to get your nails done too for the engagement ring close-ups.
Give yourself plenty of time. Plenty of time to find an outfit, plenty of time to get ready, plenty of time to travel to your shoot. Rushing will only cramp your style and stress you out the day-of, so give yourself grace! Remember to enjoy the whole experience, preparation included. Blast your best Spotify playlist and indulge in a glass of champagne while getting ready. Take your time, have fun with it and just let it all sink in. PLUS, a little liquid courage always helps take the edge off <3
And lastly, FLORALS. Looking to elevate your engagement session in a big way? Add a fresh floral bouquet, wristlet or flower crown. It’s amazing how much one prop can totally up-level the tone and mood for a shoot (not to mention they’re beautiful and live on for days afterwards). Holler at me if you’re interested in this and I’ll gladly put you in touch with some of my favorite local florists.
Hope this has helped! Can’t wait to shoot with ya!